Love: Surrender and Dependency
Description:
The difference between surrender and dependency in a relationship is this: surrender is out of love, dependency is out of fear. Dependency is when you are desiring something: there is a motive. You are ready to become dependent, that’s what you are willing to pay for something. Surrender has no desire in it. It is sheer joy, it is trust, it is unmotivated. Bring your awareness to your relationships with non-judgment and compassion for yourself.
When and Where:
Notice if your relationship is to avoid your loneliness, your emptiness. Or, can you be so happy alone with yourself that you would like to share-happiness always wants to share.
Benefits:
The more you understand yourself, and whether you are surrendered or dependent in your relationship, the more you can be free from unconsciously blocking the love your really want.
